I picked my kids up at a birthday party yesterday. It was at one of those pizza/video game “fun” places. You know the kind where you get tickets out of a video game for playing (It’s a clever way to feed our addiction to want more). Anyway, I was helping my daughter pick out a toy with her 220 tickets when my son walked up and said, “Here Makenna, I spent all my tickets on you.” He then handed her a cute little pink purse that had a couple of purple, star shaped erasers, a gold ring and a blue Chinese finger cuff. She took this gift and stared at it with amazement and disbelief. She finally said, “Thank you.” “You’re welcome,” Devin said with a smile. And with that, he turned and walked away to play with his friends. Makenna stood there for several moments just looking at this unexpected gift that was just offered to her, with love, no strings attached. After several moments of contemplating how to respond, she looked up at me and said, “Daddy, I want to spend all my tickets on Devin.” I smiled and said, “I think that’s a great idea honey.” So we spent the next few minutes picking out a few items so she could love Devin the way he loved her.
Although I witnessed this unselfish act between my children, I couldn't help but be reminded of our human depravity toward narcissism this morning when I read a poem by literary critic C.S. Lewis:
All this is flashy rhetoric about loving you.
I never had a selfless thought since I was born.
I am mercenary and self-seeking through and through;
I want God, you, all friends, merely to serve my turn.
Peace, reassurance, pleasure, are the goals I seek,
I cannot crawl one inch outside my proper skin;
I talk of love – a scholar’s parrot may talk Greek –
But, self-imprisoned, always end where I begin.
The selflessness my children displayed did not come from their nature or from clever parenting on my part! It came from Jesus Christ, who was permitted to be alive in them at that moment. First in my son’s heart and then in my daughter’s. You know, there is something beautiful about dying to our corrupt nature and allowing Christ’s love to live during those moments in us.
By the way, my kid’s behavior turned to self-interest about whose gifts from Christmas were whose, as soon as we got home. We need to be on-foot; in battle to war against our nature. It reminds me of the dodo passage in Romans, Chapter 7 verses 15-25.
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